My fathers 21st yertzeit (anniversary of his death) is this coming Sunday. I had just turned 16 when he died from colon cancer. Not only have I been without a father for the majority of my life, but I have a 14 year old, and it struck me this week that she is so so close to the same age that I was when I lost my father.
And yet, I still don't have a will. I have no one that I am ready to appoint as guardians for me kids.
My husband and I need to live to a good old age. There just isn't a choice.
One sister in law might be willing to be put down as guardian on our will, she is responsible enough that I would trust her, but she has a house full of her own kids and doesn't think she is up to dealing with the medical issues. She isn't local, so it would be a huge upheaval for my kids.
I can't even get a babysitter for my tube fed son so my husband and I can get away for a night together.
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